Personalized Wedding Ceremonies Rooted in Meaning and Joy

Officiating heartfelt ceremonies across New Jersey, New York, and Pennsylvania

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Make it YOURS

Your wedding ceremony is the soul of your day—and it should feel like you. As a Wedding Officiant, I create custom wedding ceremonies that reflect who you are as a couple: your journey, your values, and your vision for the future. From classic to creative, spiritual to secular, I meet you where you are and help you celebrate your love with authenticity and intention.

Searching for a wedding officiant near you? Whether you're looking for a wedding officiant in New Jersey, a vow renewal ceremony in New York, or a last-minute officiant for an elopement in Pennsylvania, I bring warmth, professionalism, and experience to every celebration. I'm honored to serve couples throughout the tri-state area who are seeking a personal touch and a calming presence on their big day.

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What’s Included:

  • A one-on-one planning session (in person or virtual)

  • A fully customized ceremony script

  • Legal document filing and coordination

  • Optional premarital counseling session

  • Travel to your venue anywhere in NJ, NY, or PA

A Word from Tom

“There’s nothing more meaningful than helping two people stand together and say, 'We choose each other.' My goal is to create a ceremony that feels sacred, centered, and true to you.”

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Looking for something simpler or more spontaneous?

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Express Wedding

Bride in a white dress and veil walking with a groom in a suit through a field of tall grass with mountains in the background.

Elopement Ceremonies

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Vow Renewal Service

  • My husband and I loved our experience with Pastor Tom and are so happy to have had him officiate our wedding. We clicked right away from the first video call with him, and knew he’d be the one for us! He catered to what we wanted for the ceremony and was helpful leading up to it if we had any questions or concerns. He suggested a hand fasting ceremony where we really “tied the knot”, which was a fun element to incorporate. Pastor Tom did a wonderful job with the ceremony and everyone loved his energy and personality (especially because he sang)! We highly recommend him!My husband and I loved our experience with Pastor Tom and are so happy to have had him officiate our wedding. We clicked right away from the first video call with him, and knew he’d be the one for us! He catered to what we wanted for the ceremony and was helpful leading up to it if we had any questions or concerns. He suggested a hand fasting ceremony where we really “tied the knot”, which was a fun element to incorporate. Pastor Tom did a wonderful job with the ceremony and everyone loved his energy and personality (especially because he sang)! We highly recommend him!

    Jackie R.

A wedding ceremony by the beach with a bride in a white dress and veil, a groom in a blue suit, and an officiant in a suit standing under a gazebo decorated with white and blue drapery.
Outdoor wedding setup with white chairs facing a small arch near the ocean, cloudy sky and grassy area.
Bride and groom standing at an altar exchanging vows, with bridesmaids in pink dresses holding bouquets, and officiant in the background, in a red and wooden church setting.
A bride in a white wedding dress and a groom in a tuxedo stand with a man in a suit, all smiling.
A bride in a white dress and groom in a black suit stand next to an older man in a suit on a brick path, with trees and bushes in the background.
Indoor wedding aisle with white chairs, surrounded by decorative lanterns and floral arrangements, guests seated, brick floor, and floral archway at the end.
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A bride and groom in wedding attire stand with a third man in suits, smiling outdoors in front of a red wooden building. The bride is in a white dress holding a bouquet, and the groom and the third man wear suits.
Three people standing outdoors on a brick pathway, with greenery and flowers in the background. One woman in a white gown and two men in suits smile at the camera.
Outdoor wedding ceremony setup with white chairs and floral decorations, overlooking a city skyline under a partly cloudy sky.
Outdoor wedding setting with a stone path leading to a flower-adorned arch, surrounded by white chairs and greenery.
Wedding couple posing with a guest in a formal setting. The bride is wearing a white lace gown and holding a bouquet, while the groom is in a plaid suit. The guest is dressed in a dark suit.
Beach wedding setup with rows of white chairs facing an archway by the water on a cloudy day.
Three people posing on a wooden deck by a lake, with one person in a wedding dress and two in suits, against a backdrop of trees and a partly cloudy sky.
Bride and groom stand facing each other under a floral arch during a wedding ceremony, with an officiant and bridesmaid present.
Bride in a strapless white wedding gown standing with two men, one in a light gray suit with a bow tie and the other in a dark suit, in an elegantly decorated room.
Table with decorative glass jars and a colorful sand art frame, set outdoors with a road and lake view in the background.
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Three people posing outdoors, with a wedding arch decorated with flowers and tulle in the background. The person in the center is wearing a suit and glasses, while the two on the sides are wearing wedding attire; the one on the left is in a lace dres
Outdoor wedding ceremony setup with white chairs and floral arch
Bride and groom posing with a man in a suit by a glass door with outdoor seating in the background.
Bride and groom exchanging vows outdoors with officiant and groomsmen, surrounded by floral decorations.
A group photo of three people dressed formally at an outdoor event. A woman in a lace wedding gown stands between two men in suits, one wearing glasses and the other with a boutonniere.
Three people in formal attire standing outdoors, with a woman in a white dress holding a bouquet, flanked by two men in suits.
Outdoor wedding setup with white chairs arranged in rows facing a wooden arbor. The pathway is lined with floral decorations on wooden barrels. Trees and a grassy field are visible in the background under a clear blue sky.
Man in a suit standing at a beachside venue, holding a folder, with ocean and sand dunes in the background. Decor includes draped fabric.
Wedding ceremony under a floral arch with the bride and groom holding hands, surrounded by a bridal party. Elegant chandelier overhead, white drapery and greenery decor.

Ready to talk about your dream ceremony?

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Wedding FAQs

  • Tom is ordained and legally authorized to officiate weddings throughout New Jersey, New York, and Pennsylvania. He is not licensed to officiate same sex weddings.

  • Absolutely. Many couples feel nervous about writing their vows—it’s a big moment! I offer guidance to help you express what matters most in a way that feels authentic to you. Whether you want to write your own from scratch, adapt something traditional, or simply need a little structure to get started, I’ll walk you through it. Your vows should reflect your heart, and I’ll be there to help you find the right words.

  • Absolutely. Tom works closely with each couple to create a personalized ceremony that aligns with their values and vision.

  • Yes, Tom provides both pre-marital and ongoing marriage counseling, drawing from his extensive experience and passion in clear communication, helping couples build or rebuild trust by mediating necessary conversations.

    • Personalized Ceremonies start at $395+

    • Express Ceremonies start at $275

    • Elopement Ceremonies start at $475

    • Vow Renewals start at $275.

    The initial consultation is $20, which is refundable or applied toward your service fee upon booking.

    Service fees vary based on the type and complexity of the ceremony or counseling required.

  • Yes, Tom is willing to travel throughout the Tri-State area to officiate your ceremony. However, please note that distance will play a role in cost.