Start Strong, Stay Connected

Be rooted in honesty, growth, and meaningful connection.

Preparing for your wedding is important—but preparing for your marriage is essential. Pre-marital counseling helps you and your partner build a foundation rooted in communication, shared values, and emotional resilience. Whether you’ve just said “yes” or you’re weeks away from “I do,” this space is designed to strengthen your bond and equip you with tools for a lifelong partnership.

Pre-Marriage Counseling

$35 per session + Online Assessment

Marriage isn’t just a celebration—it’s a commitment that deserves preparation. This premarital package is designed to help you and your partner start strong by exploring the big topics before you say “I do.”

You’ll Learn To:

  • Communicate openly and effectively

  • Resolve conflict with care and respect

  • Manage money as a team

  • Navigate expectations, family dynamics, and in-law relationships

  • Identify your values and vision as a couple

What’s Included:

  • Five personalized sessions (in person or virtual via Zoom or FaceTime)

  • An in-depth online relationship assessment

  • Thoughtful exploration of key topics:

    • Communication & conflict resolution

    • Financial alignment & planning

    • Family dynamics & in-laws

    • Intimacy & expectations

    • Vision for the future

  • Faith-based or secular guidance available

Perfect For:

  • Engaged couples preparing for their wedding

  • Couples considering marriage and wanting clarity

  • Partners seeking spiritual or emotional alignment before making a lifelong commitment

Faith-Based or Secular Options Available

I honor and respect each couple’s background. Whether you’re seeking spiritually grounded guidance or a more neutral approach, we’ll shape your sessions to reflect your values.

Give your marriage the gift of a strong beginning.
Start your pre-marital journey with Tom today.

Step one is a 20-minute discovery call so we can explore your needs and see if we’re the right fit. The $20 booking fee is applied toward your first session or refunded after the call. If we move forward, I’ll send you an intake form and assessment link to begin the process.

“Marriage is more than a ceremony—it's a journey you take together, day by day. These sessions are about more than checking a box; they’re about giving your relationship the care and attention it deserves before life gets busy. My role is to listen, guide, and help you both show up fully—for yourselves and each other.”

— Tom

Pre-Marital Counseling FAQs

  • Not at all. These sessions are personalized for each couple. Some prefer faith-rooted guidance, while others want a completely secular space. What matters most is that it feels right to you.

  • No—pre-marital counseling is not required, but it’s encouraged. Many couples who work with me for officiating choose to add counseling to deepen their connection beforehand.

  • I recommend starting as early in your engagement as possible, but there’s no wrong time. Whether you have a year or just a few weeks, the tools you’ll gain will make a lasting difference.