Dignified Funeral Officiating That Honors the Life Lived

Compassionate, personalized memorial services throughout New Jersey, New York, and Pennsylvania

When words feel too heavy to carry, you don’t have to find them alone. As a Pastor and Officiant, I'm here to walk beside you with care and reverence as you celebrate and honor a life that mattered deeply. Whether it’s a traditional funeral, a memorial, or a small graveside service, I help create meaningful moments that offer peace, reflection, and remembrance.

What You Can Expect:

Every service is tailored with warmth, respect, and a listening ear. Before the ceremony, I’ll connect with you and your family to learn about your loved one—their story, values, humor, and legacy. From there, I thoughtfully craft a tribute that feels both personal and comforting.

Funeral Officiating Services Include:

  • One-on-one consultation with the family

  • Fully customized service script

  • Optional inclusion of readings, prayers, or personal tributes

  • Collaboration with funeral home staff

  • On-site officiating for funerals, memorials, or graveside services

  • Travel throughout NJ, NY, and PA

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A Gentle Word from Tom:

There’s no one-size-fits-all way to say goodbye. Whether you’re grieving quietly or celebrating a life with many, I’m here to help you honor your loved one with grace and sincerity. My role is to hold space, offer structure, and bring peace to the process.

Who I Serve:

I’m honored to work with families of all faiths, backgrounds, and traditions. Whether your needs are spiritual, secular, or somewhere in between, I create services that reflect your values and beliefs.

Types of Services Offered:

  • Traditional funeral services

  • Memorial ceremonies

  • Graveside or interment services

  • Celebration of life gatherings

  • Emergency or short-notice officiating

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Helpful Details:

If you’re working with a funeral home, I can connect directly with their staff to ensure smooth planning and coordination. If you’re organizing a private or home-based service, I’m happy to guide you through what’s needed.

Need Immediate Support?

If you are planning a funeral on short notice or facing a recent loss, I am available for urgent needs. Please call or email us to request immediate support.

Email us at: pastortom@clergyoncall.com
Call us at: (908) 403-8646

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